The uncomfortable truth is that most deliverability problems are caused by the sender, not the provider. Sending to purchased lists, ignoring bounces, no unsubscribe path on anything vaguely promotional, and a domain with no DMARC policy will get you filtered on any platform.
Assuming you're not doing those things, the platform differences are: how clean the shared pool is, how strictly the vendor polices it, how good the bounce and complaint handling is, and whether you can get a dedicated IP with proper warmup when your volume justifies it.
Postmark's shared pools are among the cleanest in the industry precisely because of the transactional-only policy and the account reviews. Their stream separation is the concrete mechanism: your receipts don't share reputation with anyone's newsletter, including your own.
Resend's deliverability is good and improving, with dedicated IPs available on higher plans. It's a younger reputation, which matters less than it used to now that Gmail and Yahoo weight domain reputation more heavily than IP reputation — your own sending domain does most of the work.
Both handle SPF, DKIM and DMARC setup with clear instructions. Do all three, and publish a DMARC policy stronger than none: since the 2024 bulk-sender rules, that is table stakes rather than an optimisation.